Who are you really? What do you want?  Where have you been wounded? Who have you harmed? Can you sit in a room with someone and say it?

In life, there is pain and joy, sorrow and happiness. Before counseling, there is hiding and the rejection of self. Counseling should reveal more of who you are, less of who you try to be, who your are afraid of being, or who people tell you you are. But that's not why people come. They come to blame their spouses. You come to feel less of what you feel. You will not find that with me. It may be a different kind of relief.